Let it Go
Alright women, it’s time to let go of the expectations that you have of yourself you can share your yuckies. You can be a mess you don’t have to have it all together we all. Often times have this idea that we have to live up to certain expectations. We do it to other people, we do it to ourselves. Due to culture. Whatever it is women, we have a lot of expectations that we put on ourselves. When we are growing up and go throughout our day-to-day lives we have to challenge that for ourselves.
Be a mess
Often times we try not to be a mess, often times you know when you’re taking that photo you want to edit it before putting it on Instagram. You don’t want to tell people that you had a fight with your spouse forty-five minutes before you post that beautiful picture of you at the beach this summer. Also when it’s just you and you’re going throughout your day, try to challenge those expectations that you have of yourself. If you fall, if you spill coffee, pause and allow yourself to make mistakes. In fact try to let other people see your mistakes. That will bring other people closer to you.
People are attracted to imperfect people
People like to be with imperfect people. You don’t want to be with people who (you guys know those people you don’t want to be around) is constantly polished and always wants to be perfect. When people mess up- that’s the good stuff. I’m nervous to do a Facebook live and video but I had to get on here and say something because I felt so passionate about sharing with other women. And making sure that you introduce compassion in your life. Let’s try starting to allow yourself to make those mistakes. Let people around you see those mistakes. Let yourself let go of the perfectionism. Try it this weekend and let go of the perfectionism. Try to surround yourself with compassion and care.
